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Welcome! I’m delighted that you are visiting my website. My name is Vanaja and I know from personal experience that separation and divorce are life-altering events. It takes a lot of gumption (for want of a better word) and a really strong will to make a successful transition from married to single, from dependent to self-sufficient. |
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Divorce as the final option, is an act that requires great strength of character for women.
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You see, a long term relationship can change your character in the most basic ways. So, even when there is pain within the marriage, the marriage itself can put you in a comfort zone that is hard to give up. There could be financial or emotional dependence of some sort. There may be children that you don’t want to hurt. This is why many women find it impossible to walk out of a marriage, separate from a relationship, and divorce, even when they have had enough. Unfortunately, separation too is laced with pain – initially. Separation and divorce can make you feel insecure, fearful and weak. It can expose you to difficult realities that you feel ill-equipped to handle. You may wonder whether you made the right decision and whether you have the strength to take life head-on.
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To move on with your life and to be successful in it, you need to examine your past and present problems as a whole.
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At such a time, your mind is full of overwhelming questions, pain, guilt, sadness, confusion and a sense of losing control. You may even be repeating some of the same destructive patterns (like self-defeating thoughts, indecision and so on) that you may have developed during your marriage. Divorce does that to people.I respect your courage in meeting the challenge of an unsuccessful marriage. But, to move on with your life and to be successful in it, you need to examine your past and present problems as a whole.
Your divorce is no doubt the core issue, but there are other related problems. For example, the events leading up to your divorce may have left wounds that need healing. You may have to deal with issues of child care, co-parenting or finance. Your relationship with friends and family may have changed and you are feeling the loss of what once existed. There is an awful lot going on and you need help to make sense of this chaotic, confusing phase of your life if you want to get on with it. Fortunately, with a little help, this too will pass. Recovery from divorce is a process. All you need is a little timely help, a shoulder to lean on while you get your bearings back. Being a divorcee myself, and having helped many clients, I know for a fact that there is a wonderful, fulfilling life after divorce. I found my path and I have helped my clients find theirs. I can help you too through this trying time.
Divorce is not the end of your life. Far from it. You have the power to make your divorce the doorway to new beginnings and limitless possibilities. You can live your new life on your own terms. You have the power to experience an exponential increase in the results you desire and the joy you rightly deserve. Starting today.
Contact me at E-mail: Coach@DivorcedToDazzling.com
“Member of ICF Toronto,Canada”
